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Keep an Eye on your alcoholic relative

Let's face it, when some people drink, they become drunk. At your wedding reception you don't want your drunk relative to jump on your wedding cake while he reveals family secrets about who Johnny's real father is, do you? Of course not, so you must prepare for this.

Meet with whoever is responsible for tending bar the evening of your reception and warn him about relatives and friends to watch out for. The bartender must be able to cut certain people off in a strong and courteous manner when it's obvious that the line past "tipsy" is soon to be crossed. If there will be multiple bartenders, they all must be aware of the situation. If necessary, bring photographs to provide clarity.

A professional bartender should understand that the provided drinks should not be served strongly. Give the bartender a jigger and explain to him the maximum strength at which drinks should be prepared.

Near the reception's end you must make sure none of your guests leave while under the influence. In many states the host of an event is held responsible for any damages resulting in drunkenness. If fatalities arise due to an intoxicated guest it is possible that the host may be charged with a felony (reckless endangerment). If you partner up with a caterer or dealer with a state verified liquor license, you shouldn't face this problem.

If necessary, have the best man call a local cab company to provide your guests a safe passage to their homes or hotels.

We don't mean to frighten you. We wish you to be cautious and aware while you enjoy this special moment in your life.